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THE DURAN STAR,THE EX-WIFE WHO THINKS SHE CAN ACT AND A TUG-OF-LOVE FOR TATJANA; THEY WERE ROCK'S PERFECT COUPLE BUT NOW THEY'RE FIGHTING FOR CUSTODY OF THEIR DAUGHTER

LAST Sunday evening in his Chelsea home Nick Rhodes, the Duran Duran star, sat tearfully at a kitchen table covered in legal documents. 'I won't allow her do it,' he told a small group of friends who stood anxiously at his shoulder. 'She's trying to ruin my life.'

Less than a mile away the 'she' - Julie Anne, his ex-wife - was on the phone to a film producer friend, who was exhorting her not to back down.

Upstairs at the former Mrs Rhodes's large Earl's Court flat Tatjana, their ten-year-old daughter, slept soundly. The lines of battle in this, the latest and most bitter outbreak of her parents' post-marital feud were being drawn around her.

Next month in the High Court Rhodes will attempt to gain custody of Tatjana from Julie Anne, who wants to move to Los Angeles and take the child with her. It promises to be a bloody affair, an indecorous and protracted denouement to a golden story.

That the shambling Liam Gallagher and his new bride Patsy Kensit are pop's latest most glamorous couple shows how little mores have changed in more than a decade.

When Nicholas Bates (Rhodes's real name) married Julie Anne Friedman at the same Westminster register office used by the Gallaghers 13 years later they were self-consciously iconic.

Rhodes, the 22-year-old keyboard player in the world's most successful pop group of the time (and Princess Diana's favourite), wore a pastel pink suit. Underneath the topper perched on his bleached locks his make-up was identical to that of the bride, a 21-year-old American model who looked gorgeous in an Anthony Price dress.

While wry comment was passed that at 6ft tall the bride towered a full 5in over the groom, it was hard to say who was the more pretty. The reception took place at the Savoy Hotel, where live flamingos emphasised the pink theme.

There could be few better examples of the metamorphic qualities of the pop industry. Only a few years earlier Rhodes was an unemployed working-class Birmingham youth, who shunned the menial work offered by the local Jobcentre.

Fortunately Duran Duran, the band he played in with fellow Brummies Simon Le Bon and Andy, John and Roger Taylor, found themselves in the vanguard of the New Romantic movement. Suddenly it was fashionable for boys to look like girls, resplendent in heavy makeup (Yves St Laurent No 30 lipstick was a particular Rhodes favourite) and dandyish silk suits.

Duran Duran happened to be the prettiest and most talented of the bands associated with the fad and the extremes of hysteria they attracted from young female fans around the world hadn't been experienced since The Beatles.

Of course every male, heterosexual pop icon requires a supermodel girlfriend. Rhodes met his at a party in Los Angeles, while the band were touring America in 1982. Julie Anne left with him at the end of the evening and was on the band's plane when it flew to Kansas the following day. Within a year they were engaged.

Friedman's background was quite different from that of her husband. She grew up on a vast estate in Des Moines, Iowa; her father William Friedman was a millionaire who owned a chain of 30 stores. Unlike Rhodes, the good life was Julie Anne's birthright.

Tatjana, their only child, was born in the summer of 1986. She grew up in the $1.5 million marital home in South Kensington and summers were spent in the Rhodes villa on the Cote d'Azur.

If Duran Duran's popularity was on the wane as the Nineties approached then there were signs that the Rhodes marriage was also experiencing problems.

While Nick spent much of his time away touring and in the studio until the early hours Julie Anne had thrown herself wholeheartedly into the London party scene and was a well-known figure at celebrity nightspots like Tramp and Annabel's. She harboured ambitions of becoming an actress and took a series of courses at the Lee Strasberg schools in London and New York.

Her husband, by whom she'd been persuaded to give up her full-time modelling career, had explained in one interview that Julie Anne was not entirely fulfilled by motherhood. In hindsight his statement was open to more than one interpretation and an extraordinary incident in February 1989 suggested the widening gulf between pop's glamour couple.

It occured while Rhodes was touring with Duran Duran in the Far East.

Julie Anne took Tatjana and her nanny to stay in New York for the duration and while there socialised regularly with Jack Nicholson and his set.

According to friends, when the musician learned about this state of affairs through a telephone conversation with the nanny he ordered the young woman to take Tatjana and leave immediately for the family home in London.

On finding that her daughter was missing Julie Anne assumed that a kidnap had taken place and the FBI were called in. When Tatjana's mother discovered the truth she began divorce proceedings.

Eventually this was dropped for the sake of their daughter and the marriage limped on until early 1992, when it ground to an irredeemable halt.

Later that year they agreed an official separation and Julie Anne moved out of the family home and into a specially prepared annexe next door so both parents could be close to Tatjana.

The couple were also plagued by financial problems, thanks in part to a failed business venture. In June 1994 the South Kensington mansion was repossessed by Coutts bank, forcing Julie Anne and Tatjana to move into a rented flat. Nick was by then living on his own in the French villa.

Battle was renewed later in the year at the divorce courts. According to friends it became an unpleasant slog, with allegations of infidelity and even of bugging.

Duran Duran's new album was delayed for several months while the legal arguments dragged on. Rhodes finally agreed to a generous pay-off to his wife. Julie Anne reportedly received a $400,000 lump sum with which to buy a new home and $60,000-a-year alimony. She celebrated the result at Brown's nightclub, reportedly announcing: 'I've done it!'

The uneasy peace between the Rhodes (Julie Anne kept her married name) was preserved until a few months ago when she made the bombshell anouncement to her ex-husband that she wanted to be a filmstar and would therefore have to move to Hollywood. Tatjana would be going with her.

'Nick is absolutely distraught,' says a friend. 'He's travelled the world and Los Angeles is one of his least favourite places.

'Certainly it's not where he wants his child to be raised. Aside from the fact that she would be 6,000 miles away from him, Tatjana is very settled in London and is going to a good school.

'He doesn't mind at all that Julie Anne has got acting ambitions but doesn't want them to be pursued at Tatjana's expense.'

Julie Anne's acting experience is limited. She appeared in a fringe play in Chelsea in 1990, which was backed by her husband. A previous foray into movies had ended on the cutting room floor.

Nevertheless her new enthusiasm has been fired, according to friends, by a bit part in the forthcoming Paramount picture Prince Valiant.

Friends say she plays a buxom wench who gets her bottom pinched. Hardly a role to die for, but Julie Anne feels it's her big break.

She knew her ex-husband would be an obstacle and that he would question the realism of her film ambitions. She flew out to Los Angeles, where she stayed for a time last year while Tatjana was at school, to be with a (now former) boyfriend.

She presented several friends with individual letters to sign, each letter attempting to show that Julie Anne Rhodes had what it took to be a hit in Tinseltown.

Among those approached by Julie Anne were the peroxide-blond British horror film director Anthony Hickox, a former beau of Naomi Campbell and producer Julia Verdin, who both signed.

'They believed that they were merely helping her in her new career,' said a Hollywood friend. 'They were surprised and upset when they learned that the letters might be used to fight the custody battle.'

Hickox has already withdrawn his letter as a result of his concerns.

Verdin, former flatmate of Elizabeth Hurley, is feeling increasingly uncomfortable. She doesn't want to be drawn into the dispute but loyalty demands that she support one of her closest friends. 'It's something I don't want to get involved in,' she said when asked to comment last night. A letter of retraction may be on its way to Julie Anne's solicitors at this very moment.

Meanwhile Nick Rhodes is confident that he can use the Verdin letter to discredit Julie Anne because of some of the things it says.

'Julie Anne has always revelled in the reflected glory of being with Nick,' says one of the latter's friends. 'Now she thinks that Duran Duran are not the force they were she's moving out.'

He adds: 'She's taken him to the cleaners once and now she's going to do it again because the case will cost thousands. Nick's been a very good father and loves Tatjana. Unlike his ex-wife he's had one steady partner, Madelaine Farley, for the past few years.

'To be blunt Julie Anne's 35, she's not a supermodel and she's not an actress. Nick will have to support her when she moves to LA.' Simon and Yasmin Le Bon have apparently viewed Nick's situation with great sympathy, although they are also friendly with Julie. There is also frustration, as Duran Duran's new album faces delays similar to those experienced at the time of the divorce in 1992.

Last Saturday Julie Anne was partying with friends at L'Equipe Anglais nightclub in London's West End. It's perhaps not the image that will win her friends in court when the latest and messiest war of the Rhodes begins on June 23. What Tatjana wants or feels remains to be seen.

GRAPHIC: NICK,JULIE ANNE AND DAUGHTER TATJANA IN HAPPIER TIMES.NOW THEY HAVE A DATE IN THE HIGH COURT

DAILY MAIL (London), May 24, 1997; SECTION: Pg. 28;29. BYLINE: Richard Pendlebury.


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